My roommate and I have been butting heads, like usual. And I am getting sick and tired of living with her and having her always around. We live in a one bedroom and I've taken to sleeping on the couch to avoid being in the same room as her. She can't hold down a job and her daddy is paying all of her bills. She is so pampered and spoiled it makes me sick. Her dad is paying for her rent, car, phone, college (all of it), and giving her hundreds of dollars a month for spending money. It must be nice having no responsibilities.
Now before I go any farther, let me tell you a little more about my roommate situation. My roommate is spoiled, obsessed with VHS tapes, unemployed, rarely cooks or cleans, is clingy, immature, and, oh yeah, my ex-girlfriend. That's right, I'm sharing a one-bedroom apartment with my ex. But not by choice. We used to live together until I moved out at the end of April. Then I lived on my own. I was going to get a new roommate in August, but could support myself financially regardless. And then I did something stupid and quit my full-time $10.50/hr job because of another POSSIBLE job. Which turned me down. And my back-up part-time 7.85/hr job turned me down as well. I was screwed. I needed a miracle. My new roommate couldn't support us both, she was working at the back-up place. So I needed another roommate, and my ex hated her roomie that she had. Problem solved. At least temporarily. I put a band-aid on a knife wound thinking that would fix it. And it did, for a while. But with no space and no privacy things started getting dicey. For one, she wanted to get back together. Thats a big no-no for me. I don't date an ex. Period. Nothing good ever come of it. And we dated for 13 months and it didn't work out. There is a reason for that and dating more won't change it.
Anyway, I think its time for a change. If I get full-time at Sam's then I won't be worried. I'll live on my own. I can even survive on 32-35 hours a week as long as its steady and doesn't drop. If not, then I'm willing to split a TWO-BEDROOM with someone. I am setting conditions for myself and them however.
- No one I have dated or will date in the near future.
- No one who won't pull their weight. A job is a must!
- Someone I know, but not too personally.
- Preferably someone who is mature and respects boundaries.
- No sex addicts!
- No one super messy. I don't care about their room or if its a little messy in the main area, but nothing gross or disgusting
- Any pets brought in are their responsibility. A housebroken pet. No more than one!

